A study recently released by Siena Research Institute, AT&T and the Tyler Clementi Foundation reported that 26 percent of teens surveyed across upstate New York, and 36 percent of surveyed teens in Rochester and the Finger Lakes region, have been cyberbullied.
“In the Rochester/Finger Lakes region, one of every five parents say that their child has been bullied online compared to one of every six parents across upstate,” said Don Levy, SRI director. “Virtually all parents and nearly 90 percent of teens both across upstate and locally agree that cyberbullying is a serious problem that needs to be addressed before it gets worse.”
In the Rochester and Finger Lakes region, 70 percent of teens and half of parents have witnessed cyberbullying that included insulting or threatening comments posted online, pictures meant to embarrass, revealing videos shared online and/or posted rumors or allegations about sexual activity.
Nearly half of local teens say their friends have been cyberbullied, and 52 percent know other teens that have suffered online bullying. Over a third of Rochester and Finger Lakes teens and 19 percent of local parents witness some form of cyberbullying at least a few times a month or more.
Online activities are a major part of teens’ everyday lives; 92 percent of teens spend an hour or more a day with online videos or games and 85 percent are online at least an hour a day socializing with their friends. In the region, 83 percent of parents say that their child has their own smartphone. Nearly all parents say, and teens agree, that parents have talked with their child about ethical online behavior such as bullying, and 98 percent of parents say they have taught their children not to give out personal information online. But, over a third of local teens have shared their name and gender with someone they met only online, and 6 percent have agreed to meet up with someone that they met on the internet.
The survey reported that 49 percent of Rochester and Finger Lakes parents have rules about technology that they monitor and enforce, while 38 percent have rules, but admit they do not strictly enforce them. In fact, 12 percent of parents allow their children to make their own decisions. Only 10 percent of local teens say that their parents strictly monitor their online activities, and 45 percent say that while they have rules, those rules aren’t strictly enforced. Over a third of teens say that their parents either aren’t very involved or simply have no idea what they are doing.
“Only, but perhaps only isn’t the right word, 5 percent of area teens say that they have been a cyberbully, and 4 percent of parents acknowledge that their children have bullied others online,” Levy said. “But, almost 16 percent say that their friends have bullied others and over half know other teens that have practiced cyberbullying.”
While almost a third of Rochester and Finger Lakes teens say that they laugh it off when someone posts something negative about them, 24 percent of all area teens and over a third of girls have cried because of something posted online about them or someone close to them. Of those that have been bullied, 58 percent told their friends, 38 percent spoke to their parents and over a third confronted the bully. Only 24 percent told school officials.
Teens that have cyberbullied in the Rochester and Finger Lakes region say that they did so because they wanted to get back at someone, were angry at someone or about something and/or did so because they thought it was funny. In addition to those that admit to having cyberbullied, 19 percent of all teens say they posted something online that they regret, 7 percent have posted something that ended up hurting someone and 3 percent have posted something that they are not proud of that is still available online.
Large percentages of Rochester and Finger Lakes teens cite many reasons for why cyberbullies target others, such as physical appearance, 59 percent; social awkwardness, 46 percent; sexual orientation, 50 percent; clothes, 45 percent; athletic ability, 29 percent; disabilities, 30 percent; and/or being sexually active, 27 percent.
“Only 14 percent of those that witness cyberbullying say that they ignore it in part because they are afraid they will be the next victim,” Levy said. “Over a third reach out to the victim, 24 percent try to do something about it and almost a fifth report it. Addressing this serious problem will require the efforts of not only teens and their parents, but also school officials and concerned citizens.”
“This first-hand account of what teens are experiencing online is a powerful wake up call to the pervasiveness of cyberbullying and its potential damaging effects,”said Marissa Shorenstein, AT&T New York president. “The results show that awareness of cyberbullying is high in the Rochester and Finger Lakes region, and more education is needed to help teens make better online choices. By better understanding the extent of the issue, AT&T and the Tyler Clementi Foundation hope to help teens and parents more safely navigate a connected world.”
AT&T recently created Digital You, a comprehensive public education resource offering tools, tips, apps, guidance and community education events for people of all ages and levels of online experience. It provides education about digital dilemmas and using the internet to a positive and safe outcome.
“These stats speak to the staggering problem of cyberbullying,” said Jane Clementi, founder and board member of the Tyler Clementi Foundation. “It’s outrageous and simply unacceptable to allow this to continue. Aggressive behaviors in the electronic world can cause great pain and destruction to one’s spirit. We must instill in our youth the knowledge that technology is only as good as the people who use it. It can be a wonderful and useful tool or a weapon of great harm and destruction, as in the case of many young people today, including my son Tyler.”
For more information, visit digitalyou.att.com.